A one-on-one becomes a status report when the manager drives the agenda. Twelve minutes for their topics come before eight for yours, and the asymmetry is the point: this is the other person's meeting, and a manager who fills it with updates has quietly taken it back.
| Topic | Minutes | Running total |
|---|---|---|
| Check-in One or two minutes each. This sets the tone and surfaces any urgent blockers. | 5 | 5 |
| Their topics Twelve minutes for their agenda. The time split is deliberate: this meeting exists for them, not you. | 12 | 17 |
| Your topics Eight minutes for your agenda. Keep it to priorities and decisions; deep dives belong elsewhere. | 8 | 25 |
| Growth and actions Review one strength and one focus area. Agree on what they will do differently this cycle. | 5 | 30 |
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